Yeah You’re Fat
Yeah you are fat and so what! You are still the same person you were when you weigh less. When you look into a mirror is that what you “only” see? What ever happen to the smart person, the good looking person, the funny person, the caring person, the person who used to love her/himself?
If I would meet you, I would not be focusing on your size (unless you have great taste and I want to know where I can purchase the outfit in which you are wearing or those sexy shoes). The only thing I would notice is if you are a complainer, rude, interesting, straight forward, shy, funny, and etc. Fat does not make you who you are. You have to remember the shell you are wearing is only temporary. Your look will never be consistence. Your hair color changes if not…the length surely does, your skin slowly become droopy with age no matter how much you work out. It is life.
Stop the cycle of beating up yourself every time you gain weight. Dress for the body you are temporary in. Let go of how you use to look in so and so but can’t squeeze into it any longer. You wear the clothes and do not make the clothes wear you! There are so many plus size stores around the world that you will find to cater to your present size. It depends on your taste. Some plus size stores are for conservative people, others for people who want to be hip and young, and a few stores that have the conservative, rocker chick, and sexy sections.
Stop the madness of self hatred and work with what you have. Continue eating healthy and working out and stop exercising only to lose weight if you want to shape and mold your body into a newer you. Eat healthy and exercise to remain or become healthy. Let “health” or being “healthy” become your main goal and reason to lose weight. “You” the person you are have not change on the inside just the person on the outside. Next time you look in the mirror and say, “Hell yeah I am a sexy chick, chicka, frau, damen, and etc. I rock!” Enjoy you and your many glories and great qualities. Be confident in your own skin and most important “love you”.