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Fitness BackHand Punch

October 19, 2010

What is wrong with people these days? Do they think they are doctors are know what is better for you? Urgggghhh! In my class is this girl from China her name is Amy (fictional name;). I at one time almost stood up for this chick Look in the Mirror before Speaking. I am so happy that I told myself to let people fight their own battles.

I have been sick for a good two weeks now. Everyone is spreading their germs! Both John and I are sick as heck and passing back and forth our germs to each other and getting other people germs from touching the door handles, pens, pencils, chairs, tables, you name it. The germ is being reintroduce back to us. Every time when we think we are getting better we get sick again. 3 weeks ago, in class, we were on the topic of what exercise you would never do. I said jogging and running. I don’t run or jog. When ask why not. I said because I have too much breast and can knock myself out plus I will run out of breath quickly. I rather walk and enjoy the beauty in life. I am in no rush what so ever. So then Amy said jogging and running is good for me. It is better than walking. I will become smaller. I politely let her know I am happy with me. Last week when I was sick she said, “Oh, your still sick?” I said, “Yes.” She said maybe if I do some fitness and eat some fruits I will get better. I tell her I eat fruits everyday and I do fitness by walking to and from school. Today again she mention f***ing fitness and stress that I really need to do this. I look at her and smile and said, “Amy I do fitness to and from school.” Then she said to me, “That is not enough.” I look at her again and smile and went back to my definition work.

At that moment I just want to virtually back hand punch her for her to shut the tuck up! Who do she think she is? Don’t she think she stress the point out far enough. This is my body, so what if I am FAT! I am happy with me, if she has a problem of my size that is her problem. How rude to continue bringing this up!

Amy this is for you because I am such a civilize person and I have only 4 months left to deal with your butt…muah:You want Fitness Take this to the mouth and be considerate to others!
Take this and this..TKO

8 Comments leave one →
  1. October 19, 2010 9:34 pm

    lol so funny. Don’t pay her any attention. Mind you though – every time I go back to Taiwan people comment on how ‘healthy’ and ‘well nourished’ I look… even though I am a US size 2 (on my bad days I can be an US 4 I admit but that is not big at all in my mind). Seriously my experience with my kinsmen is that Asians can be very direct when they talk to you. Especially so when they consider you a friend or someone close enough for them to neglect etiquette. I used to be so offended when people tell my dad how ‘well fed’ I am but these days I just treat it like water off a duck’s back. I rather be happy and eat what I want then count calories.

    • October 19, 2010 9:59 pm

      Oh that what it is? I am going to take your word for it:) I talked to my husband earlier after school and he told me to brush it off, but it is right in back of my mind you know. I have only knew are for 3 weeks. She joined the class with a few other new students 3 weeks ago. I don’t know if she consider us close. We talk now and then because she sit right next to me. But she talk to everyone. Her Germany is really good. She have been learning Deutsch in China since 2006. She has no problem communicating with others regardless what language they speak. I think it really might not because she see us as close. I think she is down right rude but smile and look at you like she is nice. I have a few examples that I blew off in the beginning.

      1. She lives close by me and one day we walk home together. The next day I thought we would do the same. But she said that she had something to do. Okay, so I told her perhaps tomorrow then. Then she say maybe next week or so. So I said okay whenever. This was on a Tuesday and class is Monday-Thursday. The next week came and she never once ask me if she could join me. That is okay I don’t need anyone to walk home with me. My headphone is normally my walking buddy:)

      2. That same day she ask me to speak in English please when I was talking Deutsch to her. I thought this was weird after she started to speak to me in Deutsch and wanted me to speak to her in English. But I just blew it off and try to enjoy her company.

      3. The insistence on freaking fitness!

      • October 19, 2010 10:21 pm

        She sounds like a snob and a half. Be it cultural or personal – she is totally not worth your time. There is no point is trying to elevate yourself by putting other people down. What a poo. Haha she reminds me Polonius, ‘That one may smile, and smile, and be a villian.’

        I remember when I was in France and some people would reply to my French with English and when I was in Taiwan there were a couple of times when people replied to my Chinese with English too – terribly rude and irritating but you just have to not let idiots bother you.

      • October 20, 2010 8:17 am

        Devour I just want to thank you for you wise and thoughtful insights and advices. I think I really need this because she was really getting under my skin and I don’t want Polonius Amy there! Today I will go to school and continue being civilize and stop making my imagination wonder of doing a backhand punch virtually.
        Today will be a day for me to spray on my idiot back off spray. I so wish they had that type of repellent, lol, again thank you for sharing your experience with honestly really help;)

  2. October 24, 2010 4:05 pm

    You know, sometimes I just shake my head at the things people say. How they think they know better than the other what is best for those people. I totally understand your desire to not run. Your comment about the breasts was hilarious! but in all honesty, running is very hard on joints and if walking makes you happy, then do it. And if you are happy the way your are, tell her to piss off! I never cared for the person who has to make themselves feel better by bringing others down. She is definitely not worth your time.

    • October 24, 2010 4:50 pm

      Thank you Domestic! I totally ignore her now. She asked me a few things on Thursday and I just cut the conversation short.

      1. She ask me why don’t I smile anymore. I look so sad. I told her I do smile but right now I am trying to keep focus. So not the truth I just feel like moving my seat if I could.

      2. The teacher and I was having a private conversation and she budded in and ask question.s The teacher told her a little.Then when the teacher and I was finish talking she ask me if the place help refugees and I told her no. I was asking my teacher if there is a place that my husband and I can sometime volunteer our time to feed the homeless hot meal.

      3. When it was time to go home, she ask me if I was walking home. I told her no I plan to take the bus. Then she said, “That means I have to walk home alone.” right infront of the teacher so I told her have a good weekend. I walked home after I finish asked the teacher another question smiling. She only ask to walk with me because she noticed that I don’t come to school always by myself. A group of us sometime meet up and walk together.

      I just don’t want to be bother and I don’t like people playing around with my feelings. Really uncool, so I keep my distant.

  3. October 25, 2010 2:31 am

    I’m glad you’re not letting her bug you. You are there to learn, not necessarily to make friends. especially people who are rude and inconsiderate. What you are doing is exactly what I would do, be polite and just leave it at that.

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